Relationship Satisfaction

Instructions

This assessment measures the level of satisfaction on different elements of a relationship.

The Coach provides the couple with 10 cards, numbered 1 to 10. Card 1 is number 1, card 2, number 2, card 3, number 3, etc.

One can use emojis instead of numbered cards.

The Coach would then explain the 10-point scale to rate the different elements of the relationship.

The Coach would then read the first element, “Trust in one another”. The couple then show the number (1 to 10) that indicates their level of satisfaction.

After each rating the Coach facilitates a discussion about these ratings.

Use the following scale.

1 = Very dissatisfied: 5 = Average: 10 = Very satisfied

1. Trust in one another.
2. Communication in your relationship.
3. Conflict handling in your relationship.
4. Empathy with one another.
5. Understanding for one another’s point of view.
6. The way you share tasks.
7. The way you make important decisions.
8. How you adapt to one another’s uniqueness.
9. Amount of time spend together.
10. Quality of time you spend together.
11. Your relationships with friends.
12. Supporting one another in difficult times.
13. Your shared spiritual lives.
14. Your finances.
15. Your spending habits.
16. Your partner’s relationship with your family.
17. The intimacy in your relationship.